Breakups are never easy, but a breakup around Valentines Day has to be the worst. As if you don't feel bad enough, you can't walk into a store without being assaulted by everything pink and red.
Of course, if you really want to get back with your ex, here are some tips to help you navigate the next few weeks. They'll help you get back on your feet - and give you the best chance possible to reconcile with your ex.
First, no matter how sad or lonely you're feeling right now, you'll never feel better if you spend all your time sitting around feeling sorry for yourself. It's time to focus on something besides the breakup. It will probably be hard at first, but once you give it a try, you'll be surprised at how much better you feel.
Now that you're single, it's time to focus on yourself again. Which friends have you been neglecting? Call them up and see what they're doing. Just be sure you don't spend all night talking about your ex, or how bad you feel. Instead... relax, forget about what happened and just have a good time.
Another suggestion is to take a good look at yourself. If you've had the same hairstyle for years, it's time for a change. Go out and get a new haircut. Try some new clothes. Buy something that makes you feel great. Splurge a little - you deserve it!
Next, what have you always wanted to do, but never had the chance? Have you always wanted to play tennis or learn to play an instrument - but never had the time? Here's your chance to stop dreaming about it and do something about it instead!
Take that first step. Call and ask for more information about the trip you want to take. Where can you take photography lessons, or learn more about sky diving? Whatever it is... sign yourself up and get started today!
Doing things like this are what will help put that sparkle back into your eyes. You'll start to feel stronger - and stand a little taller. By focusing on something new and exciting, you'll soon realize that you're going to be all right after all.
So stop feeling sorry for yourself. Start focusing on something positive - something that's important to you - something that gets you excited. You'll be happier, and that will make you much more attractive to everyone... including your ex.
Of course, if you really want to get back with your ex, here are some tips to help you navigate the next few weeks. They'll help you get back on your feet - and give you the best chance possible to reconcile with your ex.
First, no matter how sad or lonely you're feeling right now, you'll never feel better if you spend all your time sitting around feeling sorry for yourself. It's time to focus on something besides the breakup. It will probably be hard at first, but once you give it a try, you'll be surprised at how much better you feel.
Now that you're single, it's time to focus on yourself again. Which friends have you been neglecting? Call them up and see what they're doing. Just be sure you don't spend all night talking about your ex, or how bad you feel. Instead... relax, forget about what happened and just have a good time.
Another suggestion is to take a good look at yourself. If you've had the same hairstyle for years, it's time for a change. Go out and get a new haircut. Try some new clothes. Buy something that makes you feel great. Splurge a little - you deserve it!
Next, what have you always wanted to do, but never had the chance? Have you always wanted to play tennis or learn to play an instrument - but never had the time? Here's your chance to stop dreaming about it and do something about it instead!
Take that first step. Call and ask for more information about the trip you want to take. Where can you take photography lessons, or learn more about sky diving? Whatever it is... sign yourself up and get started today!
Doing things like this are what will help put that sparkle back into your eyes. You'll start to feel stronger - and stand a little taller. By focusing on something new and exciting, you'll soon realize that you're going to be all right after all.
So stop feeling sorry for yourself. Start focusing on something positive - something that's important to you - something that gets you excited. You'll be happier, and that will make you much more attractive to everyone... including your ex.
About the Author:
These are just some of the things that helped me survive my breakup last year. Now my boyfriend and I are happier than ever. But I didn't figure it out on my own. I had help from T.W. Jackson at www.BringMyExBack.com. There's even a free video on how you can get your ex back too!
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